Barbara Bradley Hagerty, writing for NPR, has an article entitled “A Bitter Rift Divides Atheists.” (h/t Tom D.) The article describes a debate among atheists about how best to engage with believers. It describes peaceful, polite coexistence as the more traditional view as opposed to a newer, more confrontational approach.
What struck me is that it seems reminiscent of a debate that took place (or is still taking place) in pretty much any other minority group movement you care to name. Martin Luther King versus Malcom X are the examples that leap to my mind first. But, gays and feminists have had this debate as well. Do you go along to get along or do you get in their faces and try to shatter their prejudices?
I’m definitely no student of such movements, but from my perspective it seems that the more peaceful approach worked better in terms of black rights while a more aggressive approach has worked better for gay rights. As for atheism, I don’t know how closely it parallels some of these other movements. One huge difference is that there is nothing innate about religious belief or lack thereof. By and large, it seems to reflect what is stuck in your head at a young age (note, for example, the very large number of people who adhere to the same religion as their parents.) But, certainly there is nothing immutable about that belief. I was raised as a Presbyterian, for example.
I think atheists need to be open and unapologetic about their lack of belief, but they don’t need to be jerks about it; at least to people who are being respectful to them. Being open about it is necessary for the mainstreaming effect this has. Others who aren’t religious should be able to see that, even if they’re in the minority, they are not isolated.
The article mentioned Christopher Hitchens saying, “I think religion should be treated with ridicule, hatred and contempt, and I claim that right.” In my mind, that approach makes him kind of like the Ann Coulter of atheism. It will make him money and earn him a certain hardcore following, but ultimately, it will probably be counterproductive as it leads to people digging in and refusing to communicate very well. On the other hand, responding with contempt when contempt is being dished out is probably necessary at times. But, in my mind, disrespect is only appropriate when directed at the disrespectful. Where you have a person of faith treating you as an equal with whom there is an honest difference of opinion, I don’t think there is any upside to behaving rudely.