
“It is for us the living, rather, to be dedicated here to the unfinished work which they who fought here have thus far so nobly advanced.”
“Here we highly resolve that these dead shall not have died in vain.” Abraham Lincoln said that in honor of American soldiers who died at the hands of Confederates at Gettysburg. Such resolution is something we should renew on Memorial Day. Sacrifices impose a duty upon the recipients of those sacrifices. The living should live so as to ensure that the deaths of those who died in service to our country continue to be meaningful. We should live so as to ensure that future lives are used judiciously and, if they must be lost, that they are sold dearly.
We are reminded to honor those who died for our freedom. As President Lincoln said, “it is altogether fitting and proper that we should do so.” But, as citizens, we would be failing our dead if we don’t recognize that not all who died in service were being deployed in a cause that promoted freedom. Too often, the deaths of those who served are used cynically as a shield for policies and policymakers who are not nearly as noble as those who died in their service. And this is why, on Memorial Day, I often return to this theme — that we should honor not just those who died for our freedom, but all those who died in service to our country. This is not to disrespect our dead, but to honor them. We honor them by advocating policies and electing policy-makers that use the lives of our soldiers wisely.
Soldiers who die in battle often represent a failing on one level or another — not a failing on the part of the solider, but a failing on the part of the citizenry and the leaders we choose. We failed to avoid the conflict in the first place and there was a failure of imagination to solve the conflict in a way that did not cost the soldier his or her life.
As Isaac Asimov’s fictional Salvor Hardin said, “violence is the last refuge of the incompetent.” Or, if Sun Tzu is more your style, “the supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting.” There are times where the value gained or preserved through war exceeds the costs of war itself. And there are times where the gain or preservation can only be accomplished with the loss of life. But, all too often the gain or preservation does not match the cost. And, all too often, the loss of life could have been eliminated or lessened through better diplomacy or better strategy.
Today is a day to remember and honor the individuals who died serving our country. Let’s do our duty as citizens by honoring them and by taking care not to fail those who currently serve and will serve in the future.

